I met someone on Friday who was very interested in sports psychology and how hypnotherapy can help. Let me give you a bit of a blunt introduction.
On Thursday evening I was watching Rugby Club on Sky Sports. It's a magazine type programme that rounds up all the news, views and features in rugby union. There was of course a long feature and discussion about the forthcoming England vs New Zealand game on Saturday. From the commentary and the profiles presented, it looked like it would be an exciting game and England had every chance of winning.
Every chance that is until the head coach, Martin Johnson spoke. He said, "Yes, we'll give it a good try." A good try! A good TRY???!!! At that moment I knew that England were going to lose.
It wouldn't matter what they tried to do on the pitch. If their coach is seeing the game in terms of trying to win, then the players will pick that up and will also play to try when they should be playing to win.
It's quite a simple thing to learn and put into practice. Tell your team, your employees, your managers exactly what you want them to do and their brains will process exactly what you have told them. If Martin Johnson had told his team that they were a stronger team (and they probably were) and that he expected them to go out there and play their best rugby in order to see a score in the twenties whilst defending hard in order to stop the opposition from scoring, then I suspect strongly that we would have seen a win. Perhaps Johnson did say that to the team that afternoon, but by then it was too late. He had beenon national TV telling the nation that his team were going to try hard. Players are not immune to that talk and that attitude.
This is not a criticism of Martin Johnson, I am just using the situation as an example. Use positive language, the language of winning, in order to influence your team and it will pay off. Use it on yourself too in your "self-talk," that dialogue that runs through your head and see the dividends.
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This is such an important point Helen. I have attended a few NLP workshops and this message comes across loud and clear. For those of us who work in a team of one, positive "self-talk" can make a massive difference to how we feel and how others see us.
ReplyDeleteThe extension of this is those people whose environment is giving them negative messages. I see this frequently in my work when I help clients to de-clutter.
Ah Judith, if only I could apply myself better to my personal space in my office then I would definitely have a decluttered mind. I am as I type involved in a big clearing of my work space as it was getting in my mental way.
ReplyDeleteAgree with you totally Helen and Judith. Although much easier in theory than in practice and often one has to overcome years of mental conditioning of negative thinking to get to this more positive state of thinking or being. I'm just reading an excellent book by Oliver James "They F*** You Up: How to Survive Family Life" which shows how early conditioning impacts ones life.
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